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Fatherhood

Yoda: guardian of the pacifiers

The lack of posts lately has a very simple reason: I became a father two weeks ago. Feedings, diapers, sleepless nights, and peaceful moments show I’ve joined what a friend of mine calls “the happy insomniac’s club”. There are plenty of things that have already happened, and an unimaginable amount more in store, but it’s all worth it.

Our music collection has contributed to the mood, with lots of stuff from Cri-Crí, Finnish children’s melodies and classical music, but the little guy seems to also like the heavy rock we used to listen while he was still in the womb.

Even José Alfredo Jiménez seems to have a song for the occasion ;).

End of the decade

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The 2000’s were the years that started with the menace of Y2K, gave us 6 years of Bush, the Argentine peso crash, 9/11, the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, the terrorist attacks in Madrid, London & Mumbai, the bomb in Myyrmanni, wars in Chechenya and Georgia, the Asian tsunami, the floods of Tabasco, Katrina, protests in Ukraine & Thailand, two stock market crashes, wars in Liberia, Congo and Somalia, the Jokela & Kauhajoki school shootings, the drug war & ended with the Haiti earthquake.

However, they also gave us the rise of the rest of the globalized countries and the formation of the G-20, the end of the civil war in Sri Lanka, the rescue of the Chilean miners, the spread of mobile communication, the fast adoption of broadband, the dramatic reduction of poverty in certain areas and the improving availability of basic sanitation in many others, though you won’t see that in the news ;).

The country where I was born has seen ten years of democracy, but also ten years of disorder and lack of statesmanship. The country where I have lived for most of this decade has experienced more change than some of its people would like, it’s showing itself more to the world but the world has also arrived in numbers to its shores. It’s not a homogeneous as it used to be.

Ten years might be a short time in geological or astronomical terms, but teenagers become adults in that time :).


Summer is over, but what a summer it was!

It was surprising for everybody here in Finland to experience last summer.  Winter was very cold and snowy for Finnish standards and summer came in strong and lasted the mandatory 3 months.  We reached temperatures of 35°C in parts of the country and even in Helsinki it was above 30°C for most of July.  Now the rains have started and the summer seems but a memory, so this post is a homage to the warmest, most tropical season in recorded Finnish history.

Green path

Dusk

Sunset over Helsinki

Ranchero de Nauvo

Nauvo Panorama

Nauvo Panorama

Yellow fields of Espoo

Summer storm

Moomintroll in Esplanadi

Dusk over Espoo

Vappu 2010

If you don’t know how May Day is celebrated in Finland and why it’s important, this old Helsingin Sanomat article will give you the lowdown.  This year it was a little bit chilly but not unseasonably cold.  I noticed there was less people wearing high school graduation caps and more “carnival” style headwear.  I guess some sort of ethnographic inventory is in order, as still people don’t know what my cap is all about.

Manta
Havis Amanda after being crowned

Manta panorama
Havis Amanda Panorama on May Day Eve (Vappuaatto)

Vappu in Kaivopuisto
Kaivopuisto full of revelers on May Day (Vappu)

Career advice for freshmen

Every once in a while I get asked by friends (or friends of friends) if I have any advice to give to young people about to start university. Some points below:

  • Be honest with yourself in deciding what you want to study.  If you don’t like it, don’t sacrifice 4-5 years on it.
  • Even then, understand what is the labour market like for your chosen field.
  • A diploma might be a requirement, but extra-curricular activities, other skills or even social connections migth very well be what opens the door for when you get a job.
  • Keep a good relationship with your teachers if you can.  If you earn their trust, they might help you later on in your career.
  • Be aware that as corny as it might sound we do live in a globalised economy.  Your competitors (and your partners ) might not be in/from the same city, country or continent as you.
  • With that in mind, evaluate whether you need to have a good understanding of languages, cultures and physical challenges (such as timezones).  Studying abroad (as an exchange or full degree student) will give you first-hand experience in all those things, but if you do not have the chance, try to engage with the exchange students at your university and sign in to foreign-language courses.
  • Understand that globalisation doesn’t mean Americanization.  While the US is still very important, so are Europe, China, India, Latin America, Africa…
  • Regarding your career choice, be assured that in many cases it won’t last forever.  Market and workplace conditions change really fast.  According to some studies, the average graduate will have 5 different careers before he retires.  I can tell you I have already had 3 very distinct phases in my working life (from engineering to sales to marketing) and I’m not yet 30.  Furthermore, my current professional field didn’t even exist 7 years ago when I finished my bachelors degree.
  • As such, the most important ability you will graduate with is that to unlearn and relearn.  Never lose that flexibility.
  • Be open, be brave, try new things (even if they’re not related to each other or your current field).  You never know when that knowledge of space exploration, basketball or Latin American rock might help you (those are real examples from my career).

Any thoughts or additions?

Your perception tells more about you than about what is perceived

I recently met a student of cultural anthropology and had a very stimulating conversation like I haven’t had in a long time outside of work.  Her main area of interest are cultural areas in cities, and when I mentioned that the part of Mexico City where I grew up is somehow similar to the part of the Helsinki metro area where I live now as they’re both suburbs we got off to a good start.

During the course of this conversation she mentioned the phrase that gives its title to this post, and it got stuck with me.  The first example that came to my mind was that of the different manifestations of the Virgin Mary: in Europe she’s Caucasian, in Mexico she’s mestiza and in China she’s Asian.  However, I have been reflecting more on that given the current chapter in the Finnish immigration debate, where a university professor has pretty much reached the same conclusions as Huntington’s Clash of Civilizations (conclusions with which I couldn’t agree less).

The other reason why this phrase is stuck in my head is because in the past few days through analysing my behaviour (and a couple of faux pas) I have found a couple of things I’m not sure I like too much about myself.  Then again, the first step in enacting change is discovering what the desired state is.